Helping Preschoolers Grow: The Magic of Social-Emotional Learning
For parents of preschoolers, it’s easy to focus on milestones like the ABCs or counting. But research shows the foundation of success in school—and in life—begins with social-emotional learning (SEL): understanding feelings, building empathy, managing emotions, and solving problems with peers.
At Children’s Developmental Services of Campbell County, we believe SEL is just as important as academics. When children learn how to express themselves, calm down, and connect with others, they build confidence that shapes their future.
What Is Social-Emotional Learning?
SEL focuses on five core skills:
Self-Awareness – Recognizing emotions and strengths
Self-Management – Calming down, persisting, waiting
Social Awareness – Understanding others’ feelings
Relationship Skills – Sharing, turn-taking, resolving conflicts
Decision-Making – Making safe, respectful choices
For preschoolers, this means practicing patience, using “feeling words,” or learning how to join a game with friends.
Why SEL Matters in Preschool
Better Learning: Children who manage emotions focus better.
Stronger Friendships: Empathy and sharing build connections.
Long-Term Benefits: SEL links to mental health and future success.
Parent Insight: One mom shared, “When my daughter learned how to say ‘I’m mad’ instead of throwing toys, everything changed.”
How Parents Can Support SEL at Home
Name Feelings: “I see you’re frustrated because the block tower fell.”
Model Calm: Show deep breathing when you’re stressed.
Practice Problem-Solving: Ask, “What’s one solution you both agree on?”
Read About Emotions: Books like The Color Monster help kids talk about feelings.
Celebrate Effort: Praise attempts at waiting, sharing, or calming down.
Simple SEL Activities
Feelings Faces: Draw emotions and name them.
Calm Corner: A cozy spot with pillows or books to self-regulate.
Role-Play Games: Act out emotions and solutions.
Gratitude Moments: At bedtime, ask, “What made you happy today?”
How CDS Supports Families
At CDS, we use play-based learning and therapy to help children build social and emotional skills. We also provide families with tools to continue SEL at home.
If you’d like to learn more, we offer free developmental screenings and services for Wyoming families.
Call us at (307) 682-2392 or click here to explore our programs.
Final Thought
Helping preschoolers grow isn’t just about ABCs and 123s. By nurturing social-emotional skills, you’re equipping your child with resilience, empathy, and confidence for life.